Dear Cliff, Best of luck with the surgery - with your great optimism and courage (and a smidgeon of help from the surgeons), I'm sure you'll be up and running in no time. As for the candle making, I know that you've thought long and hard about it but maybe quitting isn't the right answer at the moment, how about just cutting back? Lots of people use their kitchens for melting wax so how about just rethinking your candle making on a new, smaller scale. It would be such a shame to totally sell off all your supplies just to find that you get the urge again and have to start over. Of course, you'll do what's right for you but for all our interfering we're just trying to be helpful (What's that quote about the road to hell being paved with good intentions ). Oh, and this doesn't let you off the hook for visiting me in Oz - I'm holding you to that no matter what. LOL. So while your candle making is ON HOLD leading up to the surgery I hope you'll keep on looking in and sharing your wonderful insights and humour with us. Lots of love. Mozzie