See, that is why I am glad I did ask the question about if you meant across the top or completely liquifies meant that your candle was totally melted(all of the wax, entire contents of the holder). I knew a full melt pool meant across the top but it's confusing in the begining and sometimes people really mean the complete candle is melted as you stated here. Votives were a little fustrating when I first stated making them also. If I am wrong I am sure someone else will chime in but I do not use a wick that will totally(entire contents of container, all wax)liquify my votive. They burn across the top and reach a full melt pool and then burn down from there just like any other container candle would. Sometimes there is a slight bit of hang up on the sides but if I burn the candle past the middle the wax it will usually melt. Testing in a glass votive holder like what has already been suggested would allow you to see how it burns in glass instead of metal. The glass holders are not expensive and sometimes you can find 3 for 1.00 at a craft store. If the entire candle is liquifying(all of the wax) wouldn't that mean the wick is too large or the container is getting too hot? Also you stated that the metal holders are ugly. Are these the metal holders that the votives are poured into like votive molds? http://www.peakcandle.com/Merchant2/merchant.mv?Screen=PROD&Store_Code=PCMS&Product_Code=MLD-votive&Category_Code=MLD-VOT