This is my opinion.:smiley2: All of are being told that our candles are the best they have ever had. So we all get the big head and believe that we have the best candles ever. Then we decide, if our candles are that good, we must know something about making them. So we teach others what we have learned and all of us have different ways of making them. Once we find out that the customers are also telling the other candle makers, theirs are the best. We hang our heads and get down off the pedestal and act like normal people again. There is more than one way to make a candle. And if all of us would remember that, we might not jump on the new guy. Just my opinion, and I say all this in fun. I was one that was on the pedestal. At one time I felt like a rock star. I was great, I was wonderful, I was the best. It was fun for a while. Make your candles, get creative, mix those scents, make up cool names and do what works for you. That is the best part of this job for me.