You might try an coconut milk soak, the recipe is on the long hair community: Apply as much coconut milk (canned and not lite) to your dry hair as your hair will absorb. Make sure to work it in really well. Top it with a shower cap (or plastic bag) and a turban or towel. Apply heat for as long as you can manage (heat cap, hot towel, blow fryer, forced air heating vent - LOL). Shampoo out with a gentle shampoo and follow up with your regular conditioner or detangler. Style as usual. You can find coconut milk in the Asian isle at walmart or wherever..