candlemama Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 If you were going to make a candle or B&B products for someone who is grieving the loss of a loved one, what scents would you use? For some reason, lavender comes to mind, but I don't particularly like lavender. Just wondering what you all think. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iammommytwo Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 I have used Lavender before, 'cause it's soothing and calming.I've also used a really nice FO from Lonestar, called Remember Me.I also try to find out a little bit- perhaps a favorite flower or place that they enjoyed being (mountains, ocean, etc.)HTH......and prayers going out to those that are grieving at this time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
candlemama Posted April 1, 2010 Author Share Posted April 1, 2010 I have used Lavender before, 'cause it's soothing and calming.I've also used a really nice FO from Lonestar, called Remember Me.I also try to find out a little bit- perhaps a favorite flower or place that they enjoyed being (mountains, ocean, etc.)HTH......and prayers going out to those that are grieving at this time. Thanks for the suggestions. I checked Lonestar's site, and they don't appear to carry Remember Me FO anymore. Would you mind describing the scent for me? Maybe I can duplicate it or find something similar. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Candybee Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 White roses are given to someone whos grieving. Why not a rose and lavender combo? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuminousBoutique Posted April 3, 2010 Share Posted April 3, 2010 Amazing Grace, I use snowdrifts but I've heard NG's is amazing.Its such a pretty, light scent.. its calming. I burned, wore, and used soap with it after my young cousin passed away last spring... it helped me alot. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blest2BAmerican Posted April 3, 2010 Share Posted April 3, 2010 For some reason I was thinking of Gardenia. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CareBear Posted April 3, 2010 Share Posted April 3, 2010 I find heavy florals too reminiscent of funeral flowers like lilies (and gardenias) and so think them depressing in some settings rather than calming or uplifting. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheWickedWick Posted April 3, 2010 Share Posted April 3, 2010 Rosemary is used in some practices for remembrance. Maybe the old stand-by Rosemary Mint or Rosemary mixed with Rose. I've mixed this before and the Rosemary cuts the overly floral scent of the rose. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
candlemama Posted April 3, 2010 Author Share Posted April 3, 2010 Thanks for all the suggestions, everyone. They all sound great... got my work cut out for me trying to find a relaxing, soothing scent that is not too floral (like a funeral)! I have to run to the mall today and will have a sniff of Philosophy's Amazing Grace to see if a dupe of it is what I'm looking for.As always, you guys are the best! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
moonrose64 Posted April 3, 2010 Share Posted April 3, 2010 Well from experience? I just lost my Gram in Nov. After her passing I couldn't stomach any florals...I would suggest a nice perky scent instead.Like a really good fruit. Or just plain VanillaShy away from floral. Atleast I would. but thats just me.I'm still not so keen on floral scent yet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scented Posted April 3, 2010 Share Posted April 3, 2010 I'll add to your mix ... except I don't view gardenia as a bereavement type of floral. Carnations, now that I do. How about a lavender-chamomile mix or a geranium? Or maybe even linden?hyacinth, frankincense, sandalwood (maybe a sandalwood rose) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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