I melt my other butters, then partially melt the FBB before adding other oils, and use one of the recipes that TexasBrat mentioned, slightly tweaked. I like it light and fluffy, so I add water (2-4oz pp), a little at a time to get the texture I want, and instead of sugar or salt (tends to aid in separation IMO), I last used Almond Meal - and it's fabulous! No separation at all. As far as it being drying - I think it may depend on the user's skin. I have combination skin (typical t-zone) use it about every other day without problems. No breakouts, and I don't feel that it's drying at all. I have a customer that uses it every day. My nephew uses it every day and swears by it for his acne.