Well, I mix my own para/soy, but no curing for me. I'm of the opinion that the only thing that happens with curing is your wax gets older and your nose gets clearer. Starting with wickless will keep you from a lot of headaches, but beware, you will get sucked in sooner or later! I color my melts, but some people prefer the 'clean' look of no color. Just be sure to use candle dye when you start playing. Food color won't work. Have fun!