Ok great ideas so far, thanks, keep em coming, dammit, lol. The showers for my daughter, the baby is "supposed" to be a boy (when I had my sonogram for her, they told me she was a he). Yes I was def, thinking of a diaper cake-those are soo cute, and there are just so many games, krafty ideas, the hard part I think is to narrow it all down, lol. jldorrington, what's the tradition with the umbrella?:embarasse