Funny Girl, Yes!! I was like you. Nervous! And I agree with using water on your first try. I haven't done the milk thing yet....but you want to see how it works before you use the milk IMO. Make sure your water/lye is cool. Don't add right after you mix, or your soap will trace tooo quick! You want to have time to work with your stuff. Once you get it done...you can breathe again!! It will be o.k., just take your time with what's happening...within reason. If using a stick blender...use for a couple of seconds and stir with it off.. keep doing this till you think it's at trace. You'll do fine!! :highfive: