Container and pillar waxes are two different things. You might want to try searching for some candle making suppliers on line. That way you can shop for different waxes and wicks. The best wax is what works for you. I personally like a blend of paraffin and soy. Paraffin has great throw, but shrinks too much for my preference. I do production, and don't want to do a lot of repours. Soy on the other hand doesn't throw that great or color well, but it shrinks less, so a blend suits me better. I don't want tunneling in containers. I want the candle to consume itself as it burns. To get this, you will need to test wicks with wax and container size. You do however, want your pillars to tunnel somewhat, as you don't want the wax to melt beyond the edges of the pillar. This also will take testing with wax and wick. Since you do live rural, I would try to do my shopping through the internet. Yes you will have to pay shipping, but you will better quality materials than at a craft store. Hang around here and you will get a wealth of info.