You asked for opinions, she gave it. THAT WAS the point of the thread. Did she anywhere state that you were lying? I don't recall that she did. She brought it up because you asked for opinions, and she gave it. You know, there's lots of things that COULD happen, and this site could help you avoid that. What if someone bought one of your candles, thinking it was pure soy, because they are allergic to paraffin (totally imaginary, but hey, weird things happen) Would you prefer to get sued? What if the paraffin makers decide to sue you for libel, because you are posting things on your site that could harm their business, like the carcinogen thing? (again, hypothetical, but things can happen) You just have to be careful. You have to be professional. If you feel that she was calling you a liar, it is SO much more professional to either ignore her, or to present facts, whatever. Name calling and such does not present an image that you want. Like I said before, are you going to jump down a potential customers throat like that? Because BELIEVE me, they will present you with the same questions, and responses.