I'm a newbie as well and I can tell you that your best bet is starting with a kit. This way, you will get a "feel" for it without making huge purchases at first. Another piece of advice is to find a supplier near you so when you are ready to make large purchases, shipping doesn't eat you alive. I had the same questions you did, but truly there are no answers because it's based mainly on personal preference. (Even geographic location/altitude can affect how your materials behave when making candles.) I will say that a lot of times when you have a question, you will find the answer on this board if you search it a little. I have spent many hours here reading and jotting down notes. It is a pain and time consuming, but I guess it really all depends on how bad you want it. The people here are very helpful and very friendly, but they will not hold your hand. Most of the time they give away much more information than is truly deserved. They have spent many, many months--sometimes years finding the answers to the questions you have just asked. Welcome, though, and stick around...I promise you will learn a great deal!