OK, for the sake of time, drama & nerves- WHO is being bashed & where? WHAT video? WHO on the blackball list has caused problems? Surely it can't be all of them. (that seems to be the gist of the issue..) WHERE is the slander? Can the cards just be laid out? Aside from contacting a child, what did someone do that was so terrible? There are reviews all over the net on every type of business, every product, every everything, all sorts of complaints everywhere, so my simple mind can't quite absorb all this. It seems, to me, like you're all talking in code.