i know they were all sick with the flu, and barely limping along, and buried with orders i suspect that is when you called and left messages.your message just probely got lost in the confusion. i would try again. as for sex on the beach/fun in the sun they are the same oil. some people do not like the sex on the beach name so fun in the sun is name you can use. what temp did you add your dye flakes at, i think it says add & melt at 190.