When my wife makes a mistake, I have to remind myself that I am not perfect either. I love her, mistakes and all. If she was perfect, she would be boring. I kinda like it that she close to perfect. Those little imperfections are what keeps it interesting and keeps me guessing. I know things can get frustrating...that's where mercy, grace and forgiveness comes in to play. What an amazing feeling when someone does something and you feel they deserve something for it, and you forgive them, smile about it, laugh, and tell them you love them. It's so freeing. You are blessed in the process and your love for that person grows in amazing ways! I know this thread was means of venting, however it gets frustrating when the world wants to do nothing but man/woman bash, husband/wife bash. R-E-S-P-E-C-T. If we give more of it, we are likely to receive more of it. That's my 2 cents anyway. Sorry your repour wax got ruined. I think I'd just remelt the first pours and make as many votives as possible with the good wax you have. Could be worse, he could've ruined the original before your first poured. It's like they say, "Don't cry over spilled milk!" Chris