The 'wax' isn't paraffin, such as in most candles. It's soy wax and is purely a product of the soy plant. Since it's from a plant not a synthetic source it's light enough and melts so quickly (and without much heat) that you can melt it without a double boiler (which is required for paraffin and beeswax due to the higher melting point.) You can actually chop up the soy wax and stick it in a glass measuring cup and put it in the microwave for about 30 seconds and it melts without burning. Also unlike other waxes, soy wax, even when heated extremely, doesn't burn or produce soot. The only way it could possibly produce soot is if the person who made the lotion candle used a wick that was pre-waxed with paraffin. Also, the only ingredient in the candle is not just the soy wax- natural butters (such as shea, cocoa, and the like) are used as well as unscented oils that absorb into the skin easily and are moisturizing (such as sweet almond, grape seed, etc.) The fragrances used are essential oils, which means they are pure, not tampered with, and are not synthetic. They are made from the pure oils of plants and/or flowers. Since they are in such a pure form and are undiluted, when making one of these candles, the essential oils are diluted before using with a non-scented oil (again, such as grape seed, olive, etc.) The only essential oil that i know of that can be used in it's pure form without being diluted is Lavender oil because it's so good for the skin and has healing properties. Long story shorter, there is no way that you can burn yourself with a soy lotion candle unless you stick your hand in the flame itself, which is just silly. P.s. it is a misconception that these candles can catch fire or that they are in any way flammable. Essential oils do not catch fire when blended in such a way (as they are in lotion candles) with the other ingredients and diluted etc. nor am i certain, but do not believe that any true essential oils are flammable. To use one of these candles, you light it and let the wax melt and collect (amount depending on the amount of lotion that is required) and you can pour it almost instantly (if not absolutely instantly) onto your hands and apply as you would lotion. It's all in the soy wax. And i can completely understand the thought or belief that wax heated under a flame would burn you indefinately...especially having been burnt by candle wax before. But as i said, it's the kind of wax. I had absolutely no idea what a lotion candle was or how the heck that would even work/be any sort of good idea, but they are sold virtually everywhere bath and body products and candles are sold together....drug stores, retail stores, etc. I bought the first one I ever used at a CVS drug store and i, too, came across it and thought..."that can't be safe...or sane!" But as I do with most things i don't understand, i either ask people or research so that's exactly what i did. I even make them myself, but i don't have a strict recipe i.e. measurements and such. I make them differently almost every time depending on what essential oils i use, how strong the people i make them for want the scent to be, and you can either add more wax or more oil to make it either creamier or waxier/thicker or thinner consistency. So yes, they are safe and fun and pretty. The only way to get a negative skin reaction with one of these things is if you are allergic to one or more of the ingredients in the candle. (ex: if you have any sort of nut allergy, avoid those that contain sweet almond oil. If you are allergic to ragweed type plants, avoid ones that may have chamomile (little known fact, chamomile, though tasty and pleasant scented to some, it is a form of ragweed.) I guess we learn something new every day. Can you tell i love teaching people things? Ha. I hope this helps you and whoever else with whatever questions. Blessings, Sarah