So I decided to try using coconut milk. After reading much on here, online in general and in a few books I did it. I froze the milk into cubes. I filled my sink with cold water and put my glass pitcher in there with some water (1 oz to equal the full amount of water needed where the main amount of 'water' was the milk). Anyway once the lye was mixed with the water I added the frozen milk and kept stirring. It melted the cubes and didn't smell bad so I figured I was okay. My oils were in the pot ready to be mixed with the lye mix and were cooled down a bit so they were the same temp as the lye mix. I mixed everything, it traced, I added a poured most into the mold, mixed a little honey and tea leaves (rum and pineapple flavors) with the rest in the pot and then mixed that into the mold resulting in a nice swirl and that was it. Very simple, smelled good and my first attempt - fingers crossed that when I check it tomorrow it's still pretty and nice smelling and not some evil looking loaf of yuck. lol