Ok I'm at my wicks end (lol) I have been trying to wick amber Romance and so far evrything I use drowns. I'm using a mix of j223, IGI 4786 and have tried several wicks with no luck 8 oz jelly jar - 44Z, htp93,lx18 no luck 8 oz 3.5" mouth short jar. - This jar I've tried all the 44z, HTP 83,93, lx 18-21 with no luck, I've tried double wicking this with all these and still cannot get a good burn, they start nice however, after about an hour the flame starts to fade away. I'm afraid that if I put a huge wick I'm going to run into the problems with the jar getting too hot. any suggestions?? Thanks