Brittany My girlfriend and I are also new to soy, but I think wicking is one thing we have down. First off, buying prewaxed and tabbed wicks is VERY cheap, we paid like 4 cents each for the ones we use in our 3.5 inch container candles, and even less for the ones we use in votives. Also invest in GluDots for containers...they are amazing. We GluDot the wicks down, and use clospins and popsicle sticks to hold them in place. For pillar candles, buy wick pins, they are pretty inexpensive (I think we paid under $3 each) and have made our life so much easier. Just pour the candle, wait for it to harden, pull the wic pin out, pop the candle out of the mold and slide the wick into the candle. Welcome to your new addiction! It really is fun, and if you can get your husband to do it with you, it's something you guys can do together. That is why my girlfriend and I got into it, we were looking for a hobby for both of us. as odd as it sounds...look on youtube for Martha Steward Candlemaking videos they have been helpful. Chris and Lisa