Thank you all for all of you ideas. Guess what,...she even left me a voice mail on Sunday. It was longer than the email. I wonder who her friend is that sent her my candles? If her friend lives in my area, then don't you think,... if I were to give her all the infomation she's requested, that her friend would be making them also, then before you know it there could be a lot more in my area copying from me? I found this board by myself , tested tons of suppliers, wasted enough money, spent hundreds & hundreds of hours researching, my house hasn't had a good cleaning in years, my family has eaten enough take out food to make them sick, I've missed Holiday's with my parents and family, had tons of laundry stacked ceiling high, smelled like a big candle when picking my daughter up from school (had people to tell me this) , wax in my hair, nose, eyebrows , along with dye on my face, clothes, nails,...to get to where I'm at today! I'm sure you all know what I mean. Heck no,...I'd give her my husband before she would get that kind of info.,...!!! (just kidding about the husband part). Thanks to all of you, you have been so much help.