Mala

It's appalling that one of them went after Lei's child. Those women plastered her private information on their group page for that entire member list to see. They terrified her son to the point he was scared to go to school. Now they're making videos that they're appalled someone would name names. No remorse from them at all.

I guess nothing is sacred or safe. They can attack you, your business and YOUR KIDS because you sell tarts? They made themselves public with commercial type videos and facebook groups. They give reviews in exchange for wax as payment. They are a barter business. I'm glad I posted the blog. I'd do it again.

It got 3,512 views. : )

So the point of posting the blog WAS to expose those who threatened Lei's son, I did not realize so many were involved on that or behind it in some way... Very scary indeed.

You are brave to risk doing this, I'll give you props for that no doubt. I wouldn't risk being found out myself, if they've already gone this far attacking a child I don't even want to think of what else they could do...

I too say to draw the line now. The trial period is over, Noodle explained it best IMO.

I think she's just upset Mala, I would be suspicious/paranoid too after my child being attacked. It's absolutely sickening & the person who did it should be written about everywhere.

Your suggestion is a good idea to list the names of those responsible for this behavior.

I would be livid if someone tried to contact one of my kids like she has experienced! I wouldn't be shy about exposing such a moron either, but that's me.

Mala, I am not responsible for posting any names of that group anywhere. If you have followed along and paid close attention, you would know missywick created the blog, it has her name on it as the "owner". I have no access to that blog to add or delete any names. I shared my experience that I have had with a few of those names is all. And the names in that group and on that list is kinda like.. "you're known by the company you keep".

ETA: I think this is a good one for that group: "No matter how wise you are, foolish friends will bring you trouble. But also, no matter how foolish you are, wise friends will teach you wisdom. What a simple rule for wisdom and life! Reject fools and choose wise men as your friends, and you will grow in wisdom and avoid much trouble in life."

Obviously I didn't pay close attention to who is posting what. You just talk about it more and in more detail. I won't say another word about all this, I was just a bit curious about this thread and others about this topic.

Mala,.... No that would not make sense because it seems with being a newbie with 6 posts, you are PROBABLY in their group coming to this board wanting me to share more information to your friends. My local police have the information you are SO SEEKING to know, maybe your "friends" can find that phone number since your "friends" know the town in which I reside. DO YOU THINK I AM DUMB! GO AWAY!!!

Whoa!!!

I would like to point out Missy has very few posts as well. Post count means nothing at all.

I'm sorry if I confused you with Missy in terms of who started it. You talked about it a lot more than she did and in more detail so I thought you posted. My bad.

Please do not assume who my friends are, I am not here on anyone's behalf but my own. I have done nothing here except ask a couple questions and I am not seeking any information in particular.

I wish I could make soaps that are even half as pretty, wow!

Stunning!

Great looking soap!

Just wanted to mention that although my business dealings were with two individual women, the reason the group is being listed by missywick is because a few of those names have hit other vendors in the past (just like in the thread that was deleted in regards to VDC), and also because of a few others from that group who have never had a business transaction with me that have also contacted and me and my son. The other women (not all) just "joined-in" with bashing and the messages to me and my son. After those women started al this craziness,... Missywick (not using her real name), they now are sending her facebook messages with threats and that is what got me so upset yesterday. She has been a good "friend" while all the other vendors know the wrath of this group, they just lay low and "out of sight", some have unfriended me so the ladies in this group don't show their "association to me",..but I don't care, I am not going to let them bother me anylonger, I have new "avenues" to pursue with my business locally and I believe those women will reap what they sow and what they have done will reward me in the end.

I'm just trying to understand the motivation behind posting all the members of the group on that blacklist. You say that not all of them are involved but yet they are included on the list just the same.

Why not just post the names of the offenders and what they've done as they love to do with their reviews. I would certainly start with the one who threatened your son. That would make much more sense, no?

That's crazy about someone contacting your son through FB over a transaction with you, pure madness!!! Glad you got the authorities involved, hope they can help you do something about that.

Was it more than one person who did this???

Just trying to figure out the association of what happened to you with all the people listed in the review group. I can understand you being mad about a crazy customer but why aren't you naming the person who went over the line with your son instead of posting all the names in this group?

I've learned long ago to take online reviews with a grain of salt. If you let things like that get under your skin it will drive you batty!

Interesting. You should post why the worst offenders are on that list, no? It would be informative to know why to avoid them in particular.