Donita Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 Easter is almost here. A time for re-birth and a new beginning. This candle was a special request for a gallery that I wanted to be in for years. After having "the worst day of my life" two weeks ago, I prayed to St. Jude. Then God threw a brick at me and I listened (ouch!) and things started changing almost immediately. The gallery called and ordered all of my floral art candles. St. Jude found me in 1981 and helped me escape from a man who physically abused me for ten years. Many years later I found out that a Franciscan Monk, Father Brice, put a prayer card in my mailbox on a Sunday because he knew I was in need of help. My life started changing the very next day. I found the inner strength to change my life. I know that right now there is one or more abused women reading this. Abused women are on other forum boards I belong to. Forum boards offer a safe way to connect with people and a way to communicate when you are afraid to leave your house. I understand. The dogwood blossom is a sign of hope. The four petals are in the shape of a cross. The gold center represents the crown of thorns and the red berries are the blood of Christ. I knew nothing of Saints, but after researching St. Jude at the library I found that he is believed to be a cousin to Jesus. Nice to have on your resume. I am posting a copy of my original St. Jude prayer card. If this can be of help to anyone in need of a miracle then I have sent it to the right place. Peace. Donita Quote
Sheryl Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 I'm sure it will touch the hearts of many and open doors for many more. Your Dogwood candle is absolutely beautiful, as always and your description very apt. Congratulations on your gallery showing! I'm sure it will be a huge success!Sheryl Quote
siberia Posted February 17, 2006 Posted February 17, 2006 Stunning Donita!!! Congrats on the gallery invite! Quote
dcroome2005 Posted February 17, 2006 Posted February 17, 2006 Wow Donita.. I am wiping tears. Hun, you touched my heart and my soul with this thread. Thanks for posting. My ex hubby was very abusive both mentally and physically. I wish I would have read this years ago.. (((HUGS))))Edited to add: Stupid me, I apologize for forgetting to say CONGRATS on the gallery and beautiful candles as alwaysChristina Quote
taglie Posted February 17, 2006 Posted February 17, 2006 Wow, that is one beautiful candle! You are such an inspiration. Quote
elle110 Posted February 17, 2006 Posted February 17, 2006 Donita,That is beautiful, I love your symbolism and also how you have incorporated your belief and inspiration into your work. You are doing very important work, keep it up!May peace be with youElle Quote
sharyl55 Posted February 17, 2006 Posted February 17, 2006 Very inspiring. God does move in mysterious ways. Dogwood blossoms are so special and last for such a short time. You have managed to share them all year round. Quote
Corence Posted February 17, 2006 Posted February 17, 2006 what can be said that hasnt been said a hundred times before? everything you do is beautiful. thank you for posting and congrats. Quote
cybersix Posted February 17, 2006 Posted February 17, 2006 Donita, congrats for the gallery, congrats for the beautiful work you do.My heart is next to yours, I'm an abused woman too. Not physically, but mentally abused. So I know a bit how it can hurt. An I know the taste of liberty.I always knew you had something special, and this is your strenght and love for life, in the way only a re-born woman can be.Sorry if I wrote something wrong, I hope you can understand me anyway.A kiss from far Quote
AnitaG Posted February 17, 2006 Posted February 17, 2006 Man that brings tears to my eye's. It's Beautiful Quote
Patience Posted February 17, 2006 Posted February 17, 2006 Thank you for being an inspiration. I wish you happiness and success. Quote
firstlady Posted February 17, 2006 Posted February 17, 2006 Thats beautiful! congrats on the gallery, you do breathtaking beautiful candles and they should have been in gallery...long time ago. Quote
gloworm Posted February 17, 2006 Posted February 17, 2006 Donita,I do believe your creations are the most stunning art work my eyes have ever seen. You brighten many days:) Glo Quote
Mozzie Posted February 18, 2006 Posted February 18, 2006 Donita, there is so much love in everything you do and it shows. I am so happy for your release from misery and obvious enjoyment of life now and your dogwood is beautiful on many different levels. Congratulations. Quote
candlesprite7 Posted February 18, 2006 Posted February 18, 2006 Donita! As always you have made an absolutely beautiful candle...It was 9 years ago last month that I left my first husband, a physically and mentally abusive man. I always keep in my thoughts the many women who havent yet escaped and who are in need of help, they do need all the strength they can get. Thank you for this!Congratulations on your invite to a Gallery, that is soo awesome! Quote
Mtngrl Posted February 18, 2006 Posted February 18, 2006 You'll have to let us know how things turn out at the gallery. If you have any unsold 'canes, I will be VERY surprised. Quote
dixylight Posted February 18, 2006 Posted February 18, 2006 Congrats! What a beautiful idea...you have a gift!-Joanna Quote
heirloomoriginals Posted February 18, 2006 Posted February 18, 2006 That is awesome!! I hope your story encourages others who are in the same situation.Steph Quote
Jojo T. Posted February 18, 2006 Posted February 18, 2006 Well done Donita, on the beautiful candle, the invite to display in the gallery, the courage and the strength to take a big step from a difficult situation and the thoughtfulness to share with us all in the hope of helping others in the same situation. Your light shines in more ways than one. :highfive: Quote
homespundon Posted February 23, 2006 Posted February 23, 2006 Donita,Thank you for your willingness to share your heart and your hurt. I know that someone will seek help because of your inspiration. Domestic violence is destroying so many lives and it is time for all of us to open our eyes and join you and so many others in defending and protecting the victims who often go unnoticed.My mother was a victim until she could take no more and fought back with a cast iron skillet upside my dad's head. He left and filed for divorce because he would not be married to a woman who would hit him. I guess that is why I never missed him in my life.Also, your candles are always so beautiful! I am glad you have a way to express yourself with wax and that we get to enjoy it.Blessings,Don Quote
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