"I post here because of my passion for candlemaking, learning and helping others. At least I try to assist and discuss - and you contributed what? to this discussion other than making aspersions about my choice of apparel? Frankly, I don't much care for your attitude either, dear." Stella, sweetheart, I was obviously not alluding to your clothes. The reference was to Hans Christian Andersen's story. Many of us are not the rubes you treat us as. Your condescension is patronizing and totally unnecessary to any discussion. This is a pattern in your posts. I don't post on the board often because I have already shared my experiences and see no need to be redundant. I think Top's statement was earnest, valid and worth sharing. I thought it was very rude of you to treat him as you did.